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A Harder, Better Goodbye更难却更好的永别Mother complained of a pain in her ribs.我母亲曾抱怨她的肋骨疼She was a yoga lover, an ocean swimmer, a woman who at 7 looked ten years younger.她是瑜伽爱好者,海洋游泳运动员,她7岁,但是看上去要年轻十岁She thought she had pulled a muscle. But the pain refused to go away.她本以为是肌肉拉伤了,然而疼痛持续了很长时间也没有消退Tests revealed that cancer had moved to her ribs and spine.测试结果显示,癌症已经转移到她的肋骨和脊柱She and my father had been planning summer vacation.之前我父母还在计划暑假出游Now they were planning the remaining months of her life.现在却在讨论如何度过她生命的最后几个月She made it clear she did not want to remain in the hospital. She wanted to go home.母亲明确表示不想待在医院,她想回家Hospice, we were told, could help us care Mom at home.我们被告知,临终关怀组织可以帮助我们在家照顾母亲Suddenly hospice became the center of our lives.突然间临终关怀成了我们生活的中心A few times a week the hospice staff—doctor, nurses, social worker—would visit our home,临终关怀的医生,护士,社会务人员每周会来几次,making sure Dad and I could handle the bedpans, the pain killers and the reality of Mom dying.确认父亲和我能处理好便盆,止痛药以及接受我母亲将要离世的事实March, April, May. Each month, each week, each day was a diminishment.三月,四月,五月每个月,每个星期,日子一天天地减少Mom was confined to downstairs, then to her bedroom, then to her bed.母亲一开始还能下楼,逐渐只在卧室里走动,最后只能躺在床上Dad brushed her hair. I to her. We examined family photo albums.父亲帮母亲梳头,我读书给母亲听我们一起看相册集,As we flipped through these Kodak moments of life now drawing to a close,翻阅那些用柯达相机定格的过往瞬间,而在一起的时光不久就要结束了,I would comt myself At least we are home.但是我还是安慰自己,至少现在我们都在家里Our biggest fear was that Mom would experience unbearable pain. But she did not. Painkiller helps.我们最害怕的事情是母亲可能会经受难以忍受的疼痛幸好有止痛药,我们不用害怕It was in those last days that hospice was of particular help.那些日子,临终关怀给我们带来了特别的帮助I had not seen anyone die bee; I did not know what to do.我过去没有亲眼看过谁离开人世,那一刻我完全不知道能做什么 1398。

England Bar Customs英国人的酒吧礼仪Amazingly the British, who love queues, there is no mal line-up -the bar staff are skilled at knowing whose turn it is. You are permitted to try to attract attention, but there are rules about how to do this. Do not call out tap coins on the counter, snap your finger or wave like a drowning swimmer. Do not scow or sigh or roll your eyes. And whatever you do, do not ring the bell hanging behind the counter -this is used by the landlord to signal closing time. The key thing is to catch the bar worker s eyes. You could also hold an empty glass or some money, but do not wave them about. Do adopt an expectant, hopeful, even slightly anxious facial expression. If you look too contented and complacent, the bar staff may assume you are aly being served.就爱排队的英国人而言,酒吧里看不到正式的排队,这令人感到惊讶酒保有本领知道该轮到谁了你可以做些动作引起酒保的注意,但有规可循不要大声嚷嚷,不妥在吧台面上敲击钱币,不要叭叭地弹手指,不要像快淹死的人那样挥动手臂,不要绷着脸,不要唉声叹气,不要翻动眼珠在不该干的事当中还绝对不要摇晃挂在吧台后面的铃,那是酒吧老板用的,表示关门时间到了关键是你要让酒保看见你你可以举起空杯子或钱,可不要摇晃你脸上可以流露等待、期望,甚至略带焦急的表情你如果显得太心满意足的样子,酒保会认为他们已经为你提供务了Always say ;please; and try to remember some of the British bar staffs pet hates. They do not like people to keep others waiting while they make up their minds. They dont like people standing idly against the bar when there are a lot of customers wan-ting service. And they do not like people who wait until the end of the order bee asking such drinks as Guinness stout which take consider-ably longer to pour than other drinks.要把;请;字挂在嘴边,要尽量记住一些英国酒保最厌恶的事他们不喜欢酒客拿不定主意而让他们等着;不喜欢好多客人等着买涌而有人却靠着吧台站着;也不喜欢有人等到最后才说要喝像爱尔兰烈性黑啤酒那样的酒,因为比起别的酒来,准备这种泊的时间要长得多One Dutch tourist who spent six months visiting 800 of Britain 61,000 pubs and interviewing 50 publicans and bar workers and more than 1,000 customers said ;I cannot understand how the British ever man-age to buy themselves a drink.; But they do, and if you follow these tips you should be able to do so, too.一个曾花了半年时间,去了美国61,000家酒吧中的800个,访谈到位酒吧老板和酒保以及1,000多个酒客的荷兰旅游者说;我不明白英国人是怎么给自己买到酒的;可事实上他们就能如果你着本文所说的忠告去做,你也能如愿以偿地买到酒Speaking of tips, you should never offer the bar staff a cash gratuity. The correct behaviour is to offer them a drink. Pubs pride themselves on their egalitarian atmosphere. A in would a atmosphere. tip cash be a reminder of their service role, whereas the offer of a drink is a friendly gesture.说到;小费;你可千万别给酒保现金以表示谢意正确的做法是请酒保喝一杯酒吧为自己的平等气氛感到自豪现金小费会使人想到酒保是伺候人的,而请喝一杯则是友好的表示 3969。

;After my second child, my belly is flat. But if I bend over to pick something up, Ive got extra skin here.; She bends over to demonstrate, but there is nothing to see.“生完第二个孩子,我的肚子就平了但是当我弯腰捡东西的时候,能感觉到有多余的赘肉”说完她弯腰示范,但是并没有看见;Im lucky to be successful. You work with good photographers, and make good money. The way you do that is by appearing on magazine covers, so I guess being what you call a supermodel helped to get my Revlon contract, which I had years, so that was job security.;我能够成功是幸运的和优秀的摄影师一起工作,赚了很多钱赚钱的方式就是上杂志封面,所以我想成为你所说的超级模特之后,让我有机会和露华浓品牌合作,并且合作了长达年,这带给我职业安全感While the Revlon job finished two years ago, Crawd is still busy. Aside from being an Omega ambassador, she is working on her own skincare product with the help of plastic surgeon.尽管两年前就结束了与露华浓的合作,克劳馥仍然很忙碌除了欧米茄形象大使的工作外,在整形外科医生的帮助下,她还在为自己的护肤品工作As she is turning 0, the workout and good genes appear to be doing amazing things.如今0岁的她,得益于日常锻炼和良好基因,仍然年轻美丽;Now you see so many people who have had plastic surgery and it scares me. My mum has never had any work done and Id like to think that the way Id go.;“你知道,现在有很多人都会去整容,我害怕整容我母亲保持自然的容貌,我想我也会这么做的”The plastic surgeon she is working with on her skincare products assures her that new skin technology means you dont have to go under the surgeon knife in any case.与她合作的整形外科医生在制作护肤品时,向他保新的护肤技术意味着在任何情况下你都不必做手术When her skincare gets to the market, Ill be queuing, having gotten she was born with perfect skin, and hoping Crawd complexion does come in a jar.当她的护肤产品进入市场后,我会排队购买,不考虑她的天生丽质,希望那是装在瓶子里能让我拥有和克劳馥一样面容的护肤品 7。


. Beauty. 论美And a poet said, ;Speak to us of Beauty.;一位诗人接着说;请给我们谈淡美;Where shall you seek beauty, and how shall you find her unless she herself be your way and your guide?他答道:你们将去哪里寻找美呢?如果她不出现在你们的旅途中,指引着你们,你们如何能够找到她?And how shall you speak of her except she be the weaver of your speech?倘若她不是你们话语的编织者,你们如何能够谈论她呢?The aggrieved and the injured say, ;Beauty is kind and gentle.被虐者和受伤者说;美仁慈而温柔Like a young mother half-shy of her own glory she walks among us.;就像一位年轻的妈妈,因自己的荣光半遮着面孔,走在我们的中间;And the passionate say, ;Nay, beauty is a thing of might and d.澎湃者说;不,美强烈而可畏Like the tempest she shakes the earth beneath us and the sky above us.;就像风暴雨一般,震撼着我们脚下的大地和头上的天空;The tired and the weary say, ;beauty is of soft whisperings. She speaks in our spirit.疲乏者说;美是柔声细语,她在我们的心灵中讲话Her voice yields to our silences like a faint light that quivers in fear of the shadow.;她的声音沉浸在我们的寂静中,正如一抹微光在阴影的恐惧中颤抖;But the restless say, ;We have heard her shouting among the mountains,但好动者说;我们曾听过她在山峦中呼喊,And with her cries came the sound of hoofs, and the beating of wings and the roaring of lions.;她的呼喊唤来了马蹄声、展翅声和雄狮怒吼声;At night the watchmen of the city say, ;Beauty shall rise with the dawn from the east.;晚上城市的守夜人说;美与晨曦一起从东方升起;And at noontide the toilers and the wayfarers say, ;we have seen her leaning over the earth from the windows of the sunset.;午日,含辛茹苦者和风尘仆仆者说;我们曾看见她斜倚在黄昏之窗眺望着大地;In winter say the snow-bound, ;She shall come with the spring leaping upon the hills.;冬日,困在风雪中的人说;她将与春天一同来临,在山谷里跳跃;And in the summer heat the reapers say, ;We have seen her dancing with the autumn leaves, and we saw a drift of snow in her hair.;夏日,收割庄稼的人说;我们曾看见她与秋叶相拥共舞,她的发梢缀着雪花;All these things have you said of beauty.你们刚刚谈及关于美的一切,Yet in truth you spoke not of her but of needs unsatisfied,事实上,并非她本身,而是你们未被满足的要求,And beauty is not a need but an ecstasy.美并不是一种需求,而是一种狂喜It is not a mouth thirsting nor an empty hand stretched th,她不是干渴的嘴唇,也不是伸出的空手,But rather a heart enflamed and a soul enchanted.而是一颗滚烫的心,一个愉悦的灵魂It is not the image you would see nor the song you would hear,她不是你们想看到的样子,也不是你们想听到的乐曲,But rather an image you see though you close your eyes and a song you hear though you shut your ears.而是你们虽闭上眼睛也能看到的样子,虽掩住耳朵也能听到的旋律It is not the sap within the furrowed bark, nor a wing attached to a claw,她不是蕴涵在褶皱树皮下的汁液,也不是利爪一下垂死的鸟儿But rather a garden ever in bloom and a flock of angels ever in flight.她是一座永远绽放花朵的花园,一群永远翱翔天穹的天使People of Orphalese, beauty is life when life unveils her holy face.奥菲里斯城的人们啊,当生命揭下她圣洁的面纱时,美就是生命But you are life and you are the veil.然而,你们是生命,也是而纱Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror.美是永生揽镜自照But you are eternity and you are the mirror.但你就是永生,你也是镜子 33。

Modesty is not only an ornament, but also a guard to virtue. —Joseph Addison, British writer谦虚不仅可以增添光,而且可以维护美德——约瑟夫.艾迪生,英国作家He who loves not his country, can love nothing. —George Gordon Byron, English poet一个不爱自己祖国的人什么都不爱——乔治·戈登·拜伦,英国诗人I only regret that I have but one life to lose my country. —Nathan Hale. American hero我唯一的遗憾是我只有一次生命可以献给我的祖国——内森·黑尔,美国英雄The principal thing in this world is to keep one soul aloft. —Gustave Flaubert, French write人生在世首要的大事是要保持灵魂的高洁——居斯塔夫·福楼拜,法国作家Man greatness lies in his power of thought. —Blaise Pascal, French mathematician人的伟大在于他思想的力量——布莱斯·帕斯卡,法国数学家 01969。

Between Men and Women男女之间Men Declaration男人的宣言1. Most guys own three pairs of shoes—enough.大多数男人有三双鞋——足够了. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are .有困难时,除非你们需要人帮忙解决,否则别找我们我们帮你解决问题如果为了取同情,请去找你们的女性朋友3. If you think you are fat, you probably are. Dont ask us. Weve been tricked bee!如果你觉得你很胖,你很可能是真的胖别来问我们我们都上过当. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you aly know how to do it, just do it yourself.你们要么请我们做事,要么告诉我们你们想要我们怎么做不要同时要求如果你们已经知道怎么做,那自己做好了5. Christopher Columbus did not need directions, and neither do we.哥伦布不需要别人给他指点航行方向,我们也不需要6. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.如果那里出现问题,我们会对症下药解决问题7. If we ask what is wrong and you say ;nothing;, we will act like nothing is wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the trouble.如果我们问你们怎么了,而你们说“没事”,那我们只能装作没事一样我们不是不知道你们在说谎,只是觉得不值得为此小题大做而已8. Beer is as exciting us as handbags are you.啤酒之于我们就像手提包之于你们,会令人兴奋异常9. Women, learn to work the toilet seat. If it up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You dont hear us complaining about you leaving it down.女人,学会使用马桶如果坐便器抬起了,把它放下我们需要抬起,你们需要放下你们无视我们的抱怨,不把它抬起就离开了厕所. Thank you ing this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight, but did you know? It fun like camping.谢谢看完上述条目是的,我们知道今晚我们得睡沙发,但是你们知道么,睡沙发犹如露营,我们一点不在乎Differences差异A man will pay $ a item he needs.男人愿意付美元买价值1美元但是他需要的东西A woman will pay a $ item that she doesnt need.女人愿意花1元钱买价值元但是她不想要的东西A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.女人找了老公之前都在担忧未来A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.男人娶了老婆之前从来不为未来担忧To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.要想与一个男人开心相处,你必须更多地体谅他,尽量不纠缠他To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot but not try to understand her at all.要想与一个女人开心相处,你必须更多地爱她,但不用完全理解她A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesnt.女人希望他嫁的男人会改变,可是他不会改变A man marries a woman expecting that she wont change, and she does.男人希望女人在婚后不要改变,但她却变了A man falls in love with his eyes.一个男人会因为视觉愉悦爱上对方A woman falls in love with her ears.一个女人会因听觉愉悦爱上对方 381。